第2个回答 2007-11-04
人，是个体。因为不同于他人，而显得特殊，所以说每个人都很特别。世界上永远没有相同的两个人，不论两个人是多么的相似的环境下成长，他们在生理或者心里上总是存在这多多少少的不同。也正因为人与人之间的不同，人们喜欢与自己有着共同点的人生活相处在一起。
我的朋友大多数都是移民，虽说我们已经尽量是自己融入美国的社会，让自己尽量多吸收美国的观念，但是因为我出生与成长了十四年的故乡不是这里，所以在一定程度上和美国朋友直接还是会有着一些隔阂。我的一位朋友常常跟我说，我们来到这里多数是因为父母亲的关系，但是我们选择留在这起却是因为我们真的喜欢热爱这个地方，这个国家，这个国度。也正因为我们喜欢这里，我们就更应该试着让自己融入这个大家庭中。我相信，还有很多刚刚来到这个国度，或者已经生活在这里很久的朋友们，也在像我一样努力试图去适应，去融入这个社会，也同时为这个大家庭作出自己的贡献。
从孩童时候起，我就发现自己延续了父亲的活泼好动的性格。虽说这样的性格在社会交往还有与他人的相处中帮助了我很多，但是同时也伴随着一两点负面因素。冲动与鲁莽便是其中之一。做事总是只求速度，不求效率，遇事总是缺乏冷静，不能客观的我因为自己的冲动而吃了不少苦头。每次碰到大事小事总是由着自己的性子来，每每等到发现时已经后悔莫及了。问题明明显然的停留在我身上，自己却迟迟不自知，也一直没有改掉这样的性格，有或者说是坏习惯，直到有一天我愕然发现所有麻烦的事情堆积在一起，一点都理不出头绪，也无法再像以前一样靠着一股蛮劲把事情搞定的时候，才有所会晤。
在初中的那个年代，当大家还都是无忧无虑的小朋友的时候，谁都没有认真想过要如何处理发生在自己身边的麻烦事情。在我初一的那一年，我还清楚的记得是4/17，是我感觉一生中最糟糕的一天，也是最幸运的一天。因为前一天的比赛失误，发挥失常，我被篮球队的教练赶下了首发的位置。因为一些鸡毛蒜皮的小事，跟朋友吵的不可开交。因为长期偷懒，作业马虎，被老师提出要见我家长。这些看似普通的事情对于当时还只有13岁的我来说真的有些手足无措了。感觉好像世界上所有的麻烦都让我碰上了，又好似在一下子被关进黑色的房间，找不到一点出口的痕迹，看不到一丝希望。因为不想看到父母失望的表情，因为不想看到朋友愤怒的眼神，因为不想坐在休息区看着别人打蓝球，所以心中总想着，如果可以的话，希望今天一觉醒来可以让一切回到正常，让一切恢复平静。但是总是盼望着可以逃避现实的我看着钟表上的时间一分一秒的过去，平生第一次察觉原来事情放着不做只会让结果更坏，不去面对现实，就会有更多残酷的考验跟来。我决定像个男子汉一般站起来勇敢地面对已经发生了的事实，并且用积极的态度来面对，冷静的判断每一件事情的应对方法，客观的掌握事件的经过与起因。篮球队的落选是因为自己平时的努力不足，在临场的发挥也不好所造成的，所以落选并不是他人的偏见造成的，而是我自己的不足。为了让自己不再失望与懊悔，我应该花更多事件精力到篮球上，充足的训练可以培养在球场上的自信与勇气，在配合良好的心态就可以让自己发挥到最好，而经常上场所累计的经验也可以帮助促进我的球技。学校课业的问题的根本就在于平时我对作业的不重视，没有认真的对待，招来老师与父母的会面也是迟早的事情。既然事情已经发生，我更应该正视自己，改掉这个坏习惯，用诚恳的态度来获得父母与老师的原谅，并用将来的实际行动来这名自己所承诺的。与朋友的争执本没有谁对谁多，只是大家碍于面子而放不下的问题。
问题补充：（接上一段）既然我十分重视自己的朋友，我就应该主动提出道歉，但是在道歉的同时也应该帮助他认识到友谊的重要性，认识到当朋友之间发生冲突的时候应该怎样合适的解决。
人，不可能是完美的。我们总是在遇到问题后才发现自己的不足，之后学习，学习后进步。而有问题是出现在我们自己身上的，为什么不能在遇到挫折之前让我们自己发现并且改进呢？在冲动的时候，乃至在平时，有意的让自己冷静一下，客观合理的分析一下问题然后在作出适当的应对措施可以让很多难题迎刃而解。现在的我已经学会不在那么鲁莽冲动，在人生的道路上每走一段我就会缓下自己的脚步回头看看，看看自己，看看身边，看看有什么值得注意的缺点，看看有什么值得改进的习惯，看看有什么值得珍惜的人，每每这样做我都觉得自己又长大了一点。而在保留活力与一丝冲动性格的同时所学会的冷静，是让我觉得我跟其他人稍有不同的地方。
People are individuals. Because different from the others, and is special, so that each of them are special. The world never the same two people, regardless of how two people under similar growth in their hearts on physiological or that there is always more or less different. It is because of the different between people, people like to have things in common with their life together live.
Most of my friends are immigrants, although we have to integrate into the United States is their own society, their own as many as possible to absorb the concept of the United States, but because I was born 14 years with the growth of the home is not here, so to a certain extent, and the United States will have a direct or friends some misunderstanding. Often, one of my friends told me that, we come here because most of the relationship between the parents, but we choose to remain in this is because we really like to love this place, this country, this country. Precisely because we like here, we should try to own more into this family. I believe that there are many just came to this country, or has been living here a long time friends, like me, are trying to adapt, to integrate into this society, but also for the family at the same time make its own contribution.
Starting from the time children, I find myself a continuation of his father's lively and active personality. Although the character of this interaction in the community also get along with others to help me a lot, but also accompanied by one or two negative factors. Impetuousness and recklessness is one of them. Have proved to be just speed, did not seek efficiency, the lack of an accident always calm, I can not be objective because of their own impulses and suffered quite a lot as. Each event encountered by the trivial always to own its patience, has often wait until too late when found and the. The problem is clearly at me, itself has no insight, never remove such a character, or a bad habit, until one day I found all the trouble stunned the accumulation of things together that have no clue arguments, but also can no longer rely on as before, a quite strong to do things feelings get time to come by the meeting.
The junior high school in those days, when we were carefree kids also when no one seriously thought about how to handle the trouble in their own things around. In my first day of the year, I clearly remember it was 4 / 17, I feel life is the worst day, and most lucky day. The day before the game because of the mistakes, play mad, I was basketball coach out of the starting position. Because of the pettiness between the overburdened with friends noisy. Because long-term lazy, careless operation, proposed to be the teacher I see parents. These seemingly ordinary things was also the only 13-year-old, I really had some loss. The impression that all the world's troubles have let me run into, like suddenly being locked up in a black room, find that the export scene could not detect the slightest hope. Because we do not want to see the faces of parents disappointed, because I did not want to see friends angry eyes, because I did not want people sitting in a rest area watching basketball, so think of the mind, if we can, I hope all can wake up today to return to normal, and let all restore calm. But always hoped I could escape watching the clocks on time a single minute of the past, first noticed in his life things rejecting the original results not only for worse, do not face the reality, then there will be more cruel to test with. I decided to stand up like a man courageously general have taken place in the face of the facts, and with a positive attitude to face, cool judgment in a matter of dealing with each method and objective grasp of the events and causes. Basketball teams usually unsuccessful because of their lack of effort in a good spot to play not caused by, so defeat is not the prejudices of others, but my own shortcomings. To allow ourselves no longer disappointment and regret, I should spend more energy to the basketball incident, sufficient training to develop the self-confidence on the court with the courage to cope with the mentality can be good to play to their best, and often places on the accumulated experience, I can help promote the game. School homework and the fundamental problem lies in peacetime I do not attach importance to the operations, no serious treatment, bring the teachers and parents also meet sooner or later things. Since things have happened, I should also face up to ourselves, to remove this bad habit, sincere attitude by parents and teachers to obtain forgiveness, and the future use of this concrete action their commitment. The dispute with a friend to whom this no one, and only resort we face because of the problems.
Since I attach great importance to their friends, I should be offered to apologize, but an apology at the same time should also help him realize that the importance of friendship, when friends recognized that the conflict between what should be the appropriate time to resolve.
People can not be perfect. We always encounter problems will find their own inadequate, after study, after learning progress. While there is a problem in our own body, so why not in the face of setbacks before allow us to find and improve? In impulsive, and even in peacetime, the intention to let his calm, objective and rational analysis of the problem and then make an appropriate response to many problems can be solved. Now I have learned is not so reckless impulse, the road of life at every relief under section I will look back at our own pace, look at what we see around to see what notable shortcomings to see what should be improved habits to see what the people should be cherished, often to do so, I feel that they also have grown up a bit. In vitality and the slightest impulse to retain the character of the Institute of calm at the same time, so I feel that I was with other people slightly different place.
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