第1个回答 2013-05-20
你介意放低你的声音吗？
如果你在一个说英语的国家待上一些时间，你可能听到这个词语“礼节”。它意味着正规且有礼貌的社会行为。起初，这似乎像个很难的词，但理解它是很有用的。
礼节在每一种文化或每一个场合是不一样的。例如，在一些亚洲国家与你正交谈的人站得很近是很平常的。然而，如果你在欧洲这样做，一些人会感觉不舒服。甚至在中国，我们都知道在各种场合下礼节是不一样的。也许我们认为在自己家里大声说话是好的，但在有些地方，大声交谈是不被人接受的。例如，大多数人同意在图书馆、博物馆或是影院大声交谈是不礼貌的。即使你和朋友们在一起，在公共场所最好是压低声音。事实上，我们应当注意不要在公共场所大声咳嗽和打喷嚏。
如果我们看见有人违反了礼节的规则，我们可以礼貌地给他们一些建议。也许最礼貌的方法之一是去问某人，你介意做这件事吗或您介意不做那件事吧。例如，如果有人在你前面插队，你可以问他们，对不起，请您排队好吗？如果有人在公共汽车上吸烟，我们可以问，对不起，请您把烟掐灭好吗？人们通常不喜欢被批评，因此我们得注意我们应该怎么做。
尽管礼节的规则可能常常是不同的，但有些规则几乎全世界都一样！例如，乱扔垃圾是不允许的。如果你看见你认识的人这样做，你可以问他们，请把它捡起来好吗？ Would youlower your voice?If you havesometime in an English-speakingcountry,you might hear the term"etiquette".It meansnormal and polite social behavior.At first,this seems likea difficult word,butit can be very useful to understand.Etiquettein every culture,or in every situationis not the same.For example,is talking toyouin some Asian countriesvery close to the personis very common.However,if you do this inEurope,some people might feel uncomfortable.Even inChina,we all know that etiquetteon various occasionsis not the same.Perhaps wethink thattalking loudly in our own homesis good,butin some places,talking loudly is not allowed.For example,most peopleagree thatin the library,the museum ortheatertalking loudly isrude.Even ifyou and your friendstogether,in a public placeis the bestvoice.In fact,we should pay attention not tospeak aloud in public placescoughing and sneezing.If we see someonebreaking the rules of etiquette,we may politely givethem some suggestions.Perhaps one of the most polite waysis to ask someone,would you minddoing this or would youmind not doing that.For example,if someone cuts in front of you,you can ask them,sorry,pleasequeue up please?If someone is smoking on the bus,we could ask,I'm sorry,would you pleaseput out that cigarette?People usuallydon't liketo be criticized,so wehave to be careful how we do.Althoughrules of etiquette can often bedifferent,some rulesare the samealmostall over the world!For example,littering isnot allowed.If you seesomeone you knowdoing this,you can ask them,please pick itup?