每个人都需要朋友。古语云:「朋友是上帝照顾我们的方式。」 但你如何找到真正的友谊,并保持它呢?
美国作家萨莉西曼斯告诉年轻的学生们一些找朋友的好方式。莎莉说,找朋友就像是种植一棵树。你播下种子,照料它,使它成长。
首先,你应该选择要交的朋友。什么人才能成为好朋友呢?这不是因为一个人有钱或相貌好看。一个好的朋友应该是仁慈和耐心的。例如,如果有一天你糟糕透了,好朋友应该聆听你的倾诉,并尽他或她所能来帮助你。交朋友,你不能害羞。你应该互相让对方快乐,和分享你的生活。
但总不能永远事事如意。即使是最好的朋友也会有斗气。如果和朋友斗气,那你该怎么办?你必须要和他或她谈谈。当周围没有人时,以坦实的态度展开对话,如果他或她并不想说话,你可以写信。
朋友之间重归于好有三个步骤:
告诉他或她你的感觉如何,说清楚你朋友做错了些什么,解释你为何会这样或那样的。请记住,友谊是在你的生命中最重要的东西。
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Everyone needs friends. There is an old saying: "Friends are God's way of taking care of us." But how do you find real friendship and keep it?
The American writer Sally Seamans tells young students some smart ways to find friends. Sally says finding friends is just like planting a tree. You plant the seed and take care of it to make it grow.
First, you should choose a friend. What makes a good friend? It is not because a person has money or a good look. A good friend should be kind and patient. For example, if you have a bad day, a good friend should listen to your complaints and do his or her best to help. To make a friend, you cannot to be shy. You should make each other happy and share your lives.
But things cannot always be happy. Even the best friends have fights. What should you do when you have a fight with your friend? You have to talk to him or her. When there is no one around, have an honest talk, if he or her doesn’t want to talk, you could write a letter.
There are three steps to be friend again:
Tell him or her how you are feeling; say what your friend has done wrong, and explain why you did this or that. Remember that friendship is the most important thing in your life.
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