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Loneliness is an emotional state in which a person or animal experiences a powerful feeling of emptiness and isolation. Loneliness is more than the feeling of wanting pany or wanting to do something with another person. Loneliness is a feeling of being cut off, disconnected and alienated from other people. The lonely person may find it difficult or even impossible to have any form of meaningful human contact. Lonely people often experience a subjective sense of inner emptiness or hollowness, with feelings of separation or isolation from the world.Distinction from solitude See also: Loner Loneliness is not the same as being alone. Many people have times when they are alone through circumstances or choice. Being alone can be experienced as positive, pleasurable, and emotionally refreshing if it is under the individual's control. Solitude is the state of being alone and secluded from other people, and often implies having made a conscious choice to be alone. Loneliness is therefore unwilling solitude.In their growth as individuals, humans start a separation process at birth, which continues with growing independence towards *** hood. As such, feeling alone can be a healthy emotion and, indeed, choosing to be alone for a period of solitude can be enriching. To experience loneliness, however, can be to feel overwhelmed by an unbearable feeling of separateness at a profound level. This can manifest in feelings of abandonment, rejection, depression, insecurity, anxiety, hopelessness, unworthiness, meaninglessness, and resentment. If these feelings are prolonged they may bee debilitating and prevent the affected individual from developing healthy relationships and lifestyles. If the individual is convinced he or she is unlovable, this will increase the experience of suffering and the likelihood of avoiding social contact. Low self esteem will often trigger the social disconnection which can lead to loneliness.In some people, temporary or prolonged loneliness can lead to notable artistic and creative expression, for example, as was the case with Emily Dickinson. This is not to imply that loneliness itself ensures this creativity; rather, it may have an influence on the subject matter of the artist.[edit] Common causes People can experience loneliness for many reasons, and many life events are associated with it. The lack of friendship relations during childhood and adolescence, or the physical absence of meaningful people around a person are causes for loneliness, depression, and 'inceli *** '. At the same time loneliness may be a symptom of another social or psychological problem (for example chronic depression) which should be *** yzed.Many people experience loneliness for the first time when they are left alone as an infant. It is also a very mon though normally temporary consequence of divorce or the breakup or loss of any important long-term relationship. In these cases, it may stem both from the loss of a specific person and from the withdrawal from social circles caused by the event or the associated sadness.Loss of a significant person in one's life will typically initiate a grief response; here, one might feel lonely, even in the pany of others. Loneliness may also occur after the birth of a child, after marriage or any socially disruptive event, such as moving from one's home town to a university campus. Loneliness can occur within marriages or similar close relationships where there is anger, resentment, or where love cannot be given or received. It may represent a dysfunction of munication. Learning to cope with changes in life patterns is essential in overing loneliness.[edit] Typology [edit] Common types Loneliness can be summarized as falling into these categories:Situational / circumstantial - loss of a relationship, move to a new city Developmental - a need for intimacy balanced by a need for individuali *** Internal - often including feelings of low self-esteem and vulnerability [edit] Common symptoms Believing that 'everyone else' has friends Feeling socially inadequate and socially unskilled Being convinced there is something wrong with you Feeling that no one understands one's situation Feeling reluctant to attempt to change, or try new things Feeling 'empty', depressed, or even contemplating suicide Feeling anxious and/or desperate [edit] In modern society Loneliness frequently occurs in heavily populated cities; in these cities many people feel utterly alone and cut off, even when surrounded by throngs of other people. They experience a loss of identifiable munity in an anonymous crowd. It is unclear whether loneliness is a condition ...
What can I say? A person walks, was not alone, just lonely. Think nothing else to do, can't say loneliness, only is boring. The dark, not through the social loneliness, just beyond that. Broadly YuDaHua, was not alone, just be overthrown. Only appreciate the boring, lonely, detached, be overthrown. Have a state of mind, a rather pale, letting go of pure heart, maybe, can call lonely! Just my own understanding, have disagreed with place, please understanding.
In the beginning, love is always sweet.As time is slipping away, boredom, be used to, abandonment, loneliness, despair and cold *** ile will e gradually.Once being eager to stay with someone forever, later, we would felicitateourselves on leaving him/her.During those transient days, we thought we loved him/her deeply.Then, we got to know it is not love but a lie by which we fortourselves.（开始的开始总是甜蜜的。
后来就有了厌倦、习惯、背弃、寂寞、绝望和冷笑。
曾经渴望与一个人长相厮守，后来，多么庆幸自己离开了？曾几何时，在一段短暂的时光里，我们以为自己深深的爱着的一个人。
后来，我们才知道，那不是爱，那只是对自己说谎。
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He that always gives way to others will end in having no principles of his own. -- Aesop To decide, to be at the level of choice, is to take responsibility for your life and to be in control of your life. -- Abbie M. Dale No man is an Island, entire of itself; every man is a piece of the Continent, a part of the main; if a clod be washed away by the sea, Europe is the less, as well as if a promontory were, as well as if a manor of thy friends or of thine own were; any mans death diminishes me, because I am involved in Mankind; And therefore never send to know for whom the bell tolls; It tolls for thee. -- John Donne, Meditation XVII I live in that solitude which is painful in youth, but delicious in the years of maturity. -- Albert Einstein The more faithfully you listen to the voices within you, the better you will hear what is sounding outside. -- Dag Hammarskjold A man has to live with himself, and he should see to it that he always has good pany. -- Charles Evans Hughes The one thing that doesnt abide by majority rule is a persons conscience. -- Harper Lee At the bottom no one in life can help anyone else in life; this one experiences over and over in every conflict and every perplexity: that one is alone. That isnt as bad as it may first appear; and again it is the best thing in life that each should have everything in himself; his fate, his future, his whole expanse and world. -- Rainer Maria Rilke Were our own dragons as well as our own heroes, and we have to rescue ourselves from ourselves. -- Tom Robbins Self-reliance is the only road to true freedom, and being ones own person is its ultimate reward. -- Patricia Sampson Better keep yourself clean and bright; you are the window through which you must see the world. -- Gee Bernard Shaw The man who goes alone can start today; but he who travels with another must wait till that other is ready. -- Henry David Thoreau If you do not tell the truth about yourself you cannot tell it about other people. -- Virginia Woolf
时间，飞快地流逝着，好像一辆火车，只有去票，没有回程票，那些美好的记忆，被淡淡的轻风，吹乱了，如同一张张零乱了的相片，在空中飞舞着，让人的心，凉透底……飞来一张。
哦！是一张桌子，那光滑的桌面上，有一个小孩子，是用刀子刻的，虽然手艺十分粗糙，但却让我的身子，头凉到了脚尖——那是不懂事儿的我，刻的，那小孩子黄黄的皮肤，正如现在的我。
虽然那刀刻得不深，却足以让我的心刻上刻骨铭心的记忆……一张相片纷纷落下。
呵！是那一本本画满了掌上战争的战争游戏，那一座座小小的岛屿，那一个个精神抖擞的士兵，那一次次的仿真战役，那一次次的胜利欣喜，都给了我们快乐的回忆。
虽然那些画满了战争的本子早已不见踪迹，却给了我们热血沸腾的记忆……“哗！哗！”的一声，一张相片不偏不倚地掉在我头上，咦？这不是我们在上课吗？只见老师站在讲台前，在黑板上写着板书，同学们跟着边抄着板书，边念出了声来，没有一个人“开飞机”，大家专心致志，都在认真学习。
虽然这张相片有些发黄了，却给了我努力学习的动力……最后一张照片缓缓落下，哈！这不是正在火车上欣赏相片的我吗？这火车载着我已经行了六年了，这六年里，我们共乐过，共苦过，那美好的日子总是那么难忘，六年来的“恨”与“乐”，都融成了“美好”，可是，时间却总不等人，只给了我们纯真的记忆……如果，我能再做回小学生该多好，哪怕就仅仅一回、一回而已…
The more grown up more lonely, do you have the same feeling with me.Out of the window, the rain falling, I quietly listening to the milk coffee \＂more grow up more lonely. \＂More grow up more lonely, more grow up more uneasy, will also have to open the protect your parachute, also suddenly understand the future road is not flat... \＂Familiar and sad music touches my heart. Song, like the moonlight, pure bright and clean.Under the rain, still, I took my umbrella, the walk to school. Walking alone in the wide road, his mouth humming the more grow up more lonely. I walked casually carrying an umbrella, a little boy was running directly hit and almost fell. I deadpan looked at him, he fly out big eyes said to me: \＂elder sister, sorry! We play the game 'the police chased the thief, I am a policeman oh, running after the thief. Ah, the thief ran away! Wait for me, the thief! You have to wait for me, I will not play with you!\＂ Look at the little boy receding figure, I seem to see myself when I was a child, also with partners to play so happy. But now? Follow the \＂friends\＂ are those thick practice. Look at the tortured by learning flustered, corners of the mouth evoked a bitter *** ile.Umbrella together slowly, I want to feel this with childhood taste of the rain, touch and feel the cold rain with tenderness skin touching when the feeling, this is a kind of what kind of feeling? Bitter? Feel the liquid flow into his mouth, salty, I wonder if it is rain or tears.The clas *** ates always said I was too sad, like drizzle loathe to give up the blue sky, lingering, blurred. My wry *** ile, there is no answer.\＂The more grow up more lonely, more grow up more uneasy... \＂When I was a child, always want to grow up quickly, grow up will be very fun, everyone have such idea, in the end, it is lost to time, we grew up, but not as happy childhood imagination. Like the rain, the sun came out, and a bright light will replace her lingering feelings, we grew up, sad will replace then fantasy.More grow up more lonely. I'm really tired...越长大越孤单，你是否与我有同样的感觉。
窗外，淅淅沥沥的下起了雨，我静静地听着牛奶咖啡的《越长大越孤单》。
“越长大越孤单，越长大越不安，也不得不打开保护你的降落伞，也突然间明白未来的路不平坦……”熟悉而伤感的音符触动了我的心弦。
歌，像月光，清纯明净。
雨，仍下着，我带着伞，慢步向学校走去。
自己一个人走在宽阔的马路上，嘴里哼着《越长大越孤单》。
我漫不经心地举着伞走着，被迎面跑来的一个小男孩撞了一下，差点没摔倒。
我面无表情地看着他，他扑闪着大眼睛对我说：“姐姐，对不起！我们在玩‘警察追小偷’的游戏，我是警察哦，在追小偷。
呀，小偷跑远了！等等我，小偷！你要不等我，我就不和你玩了！”看着小男孩渐行渐远的身影，我仿佛看到了自己小的时候，也是跟伙伴玩得那么开心。
但现在呢？如影随形的“朋友”是那些厚厚的练习。
看着被学习折磨的狼狈不堪的自己，嘴角勾起了一丝苦涩的微笑。
慢慢地把伞合起来，我要感受这带有童年味道的雨，感受冰凉雨水与带有温存的肌肤相碰触时所带来的感觉，这是一种怎样的感觉呢？苦涩吗？感觉有液体流到嘴里，咸咸的，不知是雨水还是泪水。
同学们总说我太伤感，就像是舍不得蓝天的细雨，缠绵、迷离。
我苦笑，没有作答。
“越长大越孤单，越长大越不安……”小时候，总想快点长大，长大了会很好玩，每个人都有过这样的想法，最终，却都败给了时间，我们长大了，但没有儿时想象的那样快乐。
就像这场雨，太阳出来了，灿烂的光芒就会取代她缠绵的情感，我们长大了，伤感就会取代那时的幻想。
越长大越孤单。
我真的是累了……
If you feel lonely because you think people are not exactly understanding you, then try to search matched guy and make friends with them;s memory is not longlasting. Most of people feel lonely because they dont want to share their greif or happiness with others. So in return, Lone is ing to knock their doors. We have o ways to get rid of it. Fristly fill up the ＂empty space＂ in your head, if you feel lonely because you miss some people. Because people'. by reading a book, watching movie, sports game, then try to get in touch them by all means, we are used to fet lots of unimportant things, continued working. In one word make yourself tired and force you to fet, such as meeting, Tele-munication, Inter Communication or Post Communication, and talk to them directly or someone who is willing to liscen. Normally if you feel lonely and you want to overe it with very strong desire. It indicates that your life is not plete and the empty space is screwing you right now, such as doing something really interesting youhuman beings are emotional munity, people feels lonely time to time and place to place. Different people have different definitions about Lone in their minds. In one word, you have to take action instead of stop-over at thinking. Secondly you can force yourself focus on some other points which make you fet your empty space
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