当代大学生的恋爱观
大学生谈恋爱已经成为不争的事实,那么当代大学生的恋爱观是怎样的呢?我认为,当代大学生谈恋爱有以下两种不同的观点:(一)对待恋爱比较认真,认为恋爱以感情为基础,他们一般心理较成熟,有一定的责任心,彼此比较了解。(二)对待恋爱态度不认真,不是真心的。这类大学生认为谈恋爱就是为了玩一玩,为了满足各种欲望。他们基本上没什么责任心,恋爱双方彼此不甚了解,也没什么感情基础。
上述错误的恋爱观产生的原因,我认为主要有以下几点:(一)苦闷。一些大学生缺少学习动力、目标,于是转到谈情说爱,聊以消磨时光,寻求快乐。(二)好奇。在中学时学习压力较大,恋爱思想未充分显示出来,大学自由学习度高了,恋爱思想个人生活中就呈现出来。(三)枯燥。校园生活单调,三点一线连成了每天的全部,再加上家庭的干预大为减弱,寻求精神快慰而谈恋爱.
我认为谈恋爱互相喜欢对方并不是一件坏事情，关键是把握住自己，以未来为重。
It is an indisputable fact that most colleage students fall in love with somebody.What about contemporary colleage students' view of love?In my opinion,contemporary colleage students have the following 2 views of love.On one hand,treating more seriously in love and thinking love is on the basis of feelings.They are generally more mature psychologically, there is a certain sense of responsibility and a better understanding of each other.On the other hand,dealing with the attitude of love not seriously,it is not sincere. This type of colleage students regard love is just for fun,or meet a variety of desires.They are basically no sense of responsibility,there is not love between the two sides and they know nothing about each other.
The reasons for the incorrect view of love mentioned above lies in the following aspects.Firstly,Boredom.Some college students lack of study power and aim, so turn to love to spend time search for happiness.Secondly,Curiosity.The idea of love is not fully reflected in the high school because of study stress.When one turns to a colleage student the idea of love shown result from high degree of study freedom.Lastly,boring.To someone campus life is monotony,even 3 point 1 line life become all the day.Coupled with the intervention from parents significantly reduced,so he in order to be happy and seek the spirit of love.
Fall in love with others is not a bad thing.The key is to hold one's focus to future-oriented.
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